Disrespect

Why men see disrepect in one view and women see it in another view..
Well let me just explain what I mean or what I am trying to say. My boyfriend can do or say something and he won't find that it is disrespectfull but to me it will hurt me and to me its like he doesnt respect me.
Like how do you guys feel of your man having another pic of a girls Butt on there phone? I mean c'mon isn't that disrespectfull. I dont mind him looking at porn ok because he has to please himself I know for damn sure he's not going to think of me while he is doing it but I mean thats once in a blue moon. or well I think. and his phone is on him 24/7 dont u think if someone asks to see or use his phone and see that pic there going to be like is that your girls butt, then he'll say nah that some girls ass.... OKAY totally disrespectfull. Extremely.
I mean I can't be nieve or anything like that. I know he will look at other girls that obvious. I guess I am just venting, when I get upset or hurt writing my feelings down really help me. Getting advise from other people also help's me out.

Well he did apoligize to me for having the pic on his phone. He said it was a cincere apology, But I know it will happen again. well see. SORRY if theres alot of errors on this page I wrote it really quickly and I didnt review it.